To My Kindred-Spirited Post-op Bari Sister,
Today, I am dedicating the 36 Post-Bari Affirmations that I live by, to you, my sister from another mister. You have embarked on a transformative journey of surgical weight loss, and I am in awe of the incredible person you are becoming throughout this process. Your journey has been a testament to your strength, determination, and unwavering courage. You are a Post-op Bari Badass in every sense of the words. Your decision to choose this path is a reflection of your commitment to improving your health and well-being. But it's not just about the surgery itself; it's about the profound shift in mindset you have embraced. You have shown the world that true transformation starts from within, and you've risen to the challenge with grace and resilience.
As your friend, I have witnessed firsthand the challenges you've faced along the way. Yet, in every moment, you have met them head-on with a heart full of love and a determination that knows no bounds. You are an inspiration to all of us, showing us what it truly means to be a strong and compassionate human being.
And if that was not enough, you, my dear friend, you wear many hats, and in each role, you shine brightly. As a Badass Pediatric Nurse, you bring comfort and healing to the smallest humans and their families at their greatest time of need. Your patients are lucky to have someone as caring and sincere as you by their side. As a devoted mother, you've poured your heart into nurturing and guiding your son, teaching him the values of love, kindness, and resilience. As a sister, cousin, and aunt, you offer unwavering support and love to your family, always there to lend a listening ear and a helping hand. And as a daughter, you are a source of pride and joy, embodying the very best qualities of a loving and devoted child.
Your heart is the biggest I've ever known, and your love is boundless. You give of yourself selflessly, always putting others before yourself. But today, I want to remind you that it's essential to take care of yourself too. These affirmations are a reminder of your worth, your strength, and the incredible journey you are on. Embrace every step of it, for you are transforming not only physically but also mentally and emotionally.
You are deserving of all the love, respect, and support you receive from your loved ones and the world. Your journey may have challenges, and at times it may be emotionally taxing, but remember that you have a tribe of friends and family who stand by you, cheering you on every step of the way.
You are not defined by any excess skin or physical changes. Your beauty comes from within, radiating from the love and light that shines through your actions and the person you are. You are a beacon of hope and an example of resilience for all who know you.
I am honored to call you my SISTER, and I am beyond grateful to witness your growth and transformation. As you continue to face any internal struggles, remember that you are not alone. Lean on the support around you, and never hesitate to reach out. Your strength inspires us all, but even the strongest of us need a helping hand now and then.
So, here's to you, my incredible friend- the Post-op Bari Badass with the biggest heart. I love you unconditionally, and I stand with you on this journey. Keep affirming yourself, embracing your progress, and celebrating each milestone, no matter how small. You are an absolute rockstar, and I am excited to see all the wonderful things that lie ahead for you.
With all my love and admiration,
Beck
*Disclaimer: As I understand the personal struggles a post operative bariatric patient faces before, during, and after surgery, I want to maintain my friends anonymity. However, while figuring out how she will progress down this new path, I want to acknowledge her and every Bari Brother and Sister who are also taking this transformative journey. If you are struggling, know that you are not alone.